Another 24 Hours?
More time – “I need more time” comes out of people’s mouths every single day. Would adding another 24 hours a day to your life make a significant difference to your life? Did you ever think about that question?
In what other areas of your life did you have a wish for more? “If I had more . . . .” – money, more “stuff”, more leisure, more clothes, more jewelry, more education, more friends, more love . . . “I would be . . . . ” happier, better off, feeling good, earning more, be smarter, etc.
How many of you have ever thought that way? Likely, everyone.
For most of us, we do get “more” only to find that we haven’t found what we thought we would realize from having “more”. Why do you think that is?
The Trap of “More”
When we want more, it’s because there is something inside us that is unsatisfied. Instead of “fixing” that dissatisfaction internally, we look externally for something to fill the void. Externals don’t. Externals don’t fix a thing and, in fact, will likely only increase the dissatisfaction inside.
We have all we need.
The key is understanding that we don’t need “more” of anything. Instead, we should be maximizing what we have – our talents, our relationships with family and friends, our experiences and our connection to our world. That’s what will pay the dividends. Being all we can be.
If you don’t believe it, drive or walk in wealthy neighborhood alleys on garbage days. You’ll see the carnage of “having more” – a physical representation. The wealthy have a lot of money, buy many items, and what we find in the alleys on garbage day is waste – expensive bikes which have never been used, clothes with price tags still on them, collectibles, usable electronics . . . . has “more” solved anything? Buying, buying, buying for the sake of buying the latest and greatest and yet what is purchased is obviously not appreciated and not used. Ever wonder what they are looking for?
This waste is symbolic of what we all do in some way in our lives.
We are all rich, we just don’t know it. We squander what we have and wish for something else.
Adding another 24 hours in anyone’s day wouldn’t make a difference at all to our lives because we would live it precisely the way we are living our current 24 hours.
The Gift We All Have
Time management is not about how many hours we have, it’s how we use those hours to maximize the possibilities of our lives. We come into this world complete.
We each are very special with our very own particular “blueprint” by which we can define for ourselves. We have the freedom of will to utilize our special attributes our way.
Won’t you give yourself some time today to think about what an incredible being you are. Won’t you take the time this week to seriously look at your talents and abilities and put them to use for the life you want? You’re amazing – believe it – live it – be it – whatever “it” is for you in particular! Uniqueness – we all have it – for a reason. What will you do with yours?